Sunday, May 03, 2009

- Bothered -

Bothered

I know, I can't let this go. But the more I think about it, the more it bothers me. I just don't see any reasons why such a person can get away with such acts of.. selfishness?

I'm not the best person to be saying what a good friend should and shouldn't do. I don't think I've made all the right choices and I defintely have let people down in the past. But I can't get my head around the fact that some people think it's ok to put down a friend's morality, just because he or she thinks that their friend isn't doing the right thing.

What constitutes as the right thing? Who are we to tell someone that what they are doing is the right or wrong thing?

It's funny, I remember these words... something to this effect: '.. he asked me if I was drunk and I told him, that it was just the way I was. That's just my personality.' Why can't everyone accept the fact that it was 'personality'? Friend's are supposed to support the 'personality' claim whereby we don't judge our friends and frankly, there is nothing wrong with drunkeness. A few misplaced words is nothing. A few bad photos is nothing. Well, nothing that can be helped if 100 photos are being snapped in my face. I can't be 100% perfect. And it wouldn't help for a friend to keep discretion either. Being discrete is nothing to be ashamed of. Girls are supposed to be discrete in manner. It is our nature to keep things in discretion and not display it for the world to impose judgement on.

I really am bothered. There is no serious situation behind it. I just can't believe that there are such things like this happening out there. I can't believe friends have resort to this kind of behaviour.

I'm no one to judge. I am merely stating a small observation. Be nice to your friends.
-{ missing you 5/03/2009 11:48:00 pm }-