Saturday, June 05, 2010

- Love -

Love is...

... the best and worst thing that could ever happen to someone. It involves nobody other than the ones in love. It is a new world created amongst the loved ones and it is as powerful as anyone could imagine.

It may change people, but change isn't necessarily a bad thing. It isn't always accepted by everyone, because it interfers with other circles of love. It doesn't matter who your loved one is: a friend, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, your family, we change and better ourselves for them.

Love is a test. It's not always easy to keep your hands on. It's like water; unless you find something to retain it, it will slip through your fingers. Sometimes you think you can do without, but it always comes in handy. Some people take love for granted. They learn the hard way by losing love when creating havoc to which they knew the conclusion. Others suffocate the love and suppress all the joys that should come with love and instead of letting the love bloom, they drown it with too much water.

Love has always been hard for me. I've struggled with coming to terms with love for friends, or choosing whether or not to love them. I've changed myself happily for different people in the different phases of my life. My life wouldn't be what is has been if it weren't for my loved ones who've come and gone.

Life would not have been so sweet without my family.

But love has always been a struggle to maintain and uphold. Love is when you feel their pain. Love is when you feel their anger. Love is basking in their happiness.

Love isn't counting the days you've loved, but just loving.

30 months and not counting, B. >.<
-{ missing you 6/05/2010 01:01:00 am }-